Social pressure

Sun, 05 Mar 2023 23:23:08 GMT

Y'know, I never really believed in society.

Every time I'm verbally made to believe that escaping and avoiding a future of nightmares is wrong, I do some research and think to myself. On the internet and news, I always find something that proves me right in my mindset and the ideas I have to be the correct course of action.

I'm constantly told one thing but displayed another, constantly bombarded with meaningless fluff, direct lies about things that are physically proven to be true through experience and research, and utter hypocrisy (which I try to criticize but am immediately shut down when pointing it out).

For years someone in my life has been falsely accusing me, gossiping about me, belittling me, and stealing from me. My work is ignored and not acknowledged, my dreams are crushed, and doors are constantly closed.

However, I realize now that she wasn't lying about me, she was lying DIRECTLY TOWARDS ME. To justify her frustrations and hurtful actions. Hoping her lies were correct, hoping that I, would feel irrational guilt even though the "bad" things that I have done were either not what she thought I was doing or avoiding her while not having myself involved with anyone else.

My eyes are clear now.

For years I have suffered but forgotten why and for months I would wait for something bad to happen just to give myself a reason to exit from her.
Now I know my actions don't need to be justified. They need to be correct. To benefit me and not harm others. To give me a life that I KNOW and have been RESEARCHED or PROVEN to be correct, to help me later in life. It's simple, I will no longer wait for the cycle of aggression to start to take action. I will not believe in others or give in to other plans, I WILL stay on my path of travel with adaption and perseverance.

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Intro to solitarianism part three: how?

Sat, 14 Jan 2023 12:01:13 GMT

If you have read my previous post you may be wondering to yourself, what does being a solitarian look like? How do I put this ideology into practice? Well in this post, that's exactly what I'll be covering. From this point onwards I'll be giving and suggesting ideas on how to practice solitarianism and apply it to your daily life. Which will be written as a list. But before I go over these, I'll be setting a base for all of these possible future decisions, as to avoid bastardization or unnecessary fundamentalism if this ideology gets a following.

For starters, the goal is to avoid or keep distance from people as much as possible.

1. Keep 15.ft or more away from someone within visibility. 5.ft if you are an extrovert by nature or if you are talking to someone.

2. Live in an area and stay near areas that have little to no people or have vastly spacial houses or living quarters (this includes thick walls).

3. do your outdoor things in the early morning, twilight, dawn, or at night when people with average jobs are asleep or at home. (If you go outside at night you should bring a flashlight, a shield/tranquilizer/tazer/chain, or anything that can protect you. Although most people aren't out at night the ones who are can be dangerous. I do highly recommend that you go for walks often as well.)

4. If in an emergency hide behind trees, bushes, or large items. This can also be done casually but I'm not sure if most people would go that far.

5. If you are interacting with someone and begin to sense hostility or can't come to an agreement, leave until that person is no longer in your field of view. If things turn physical or if you are being followed, you should run and hide.

6. In the events of stalking, attacks, theft, or others, then walk away, run, hide, defend, and fight.

7. If you need something look up or find out how to make it if you can. Your problems only, your solutions only.

8. Don't borrow or lend anything.

9. When online post rarely and if under an online attack then log off and do something else, occasionally checking until things calm down.

10. Avoid extremists, absolutists, and cultists at all costs especially if it's a mob. (See number 6 for what to do about these, but in the case of a group, warn others about them on mass first.)

I hope you find this helpful! I plan on making more in the future.

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Social pressure

Intro to solitarianism part three: how?